To: Greg or e who wrote (3338 ) 11/14/2000 12:43:33 PM From: epicure Read Replies (2) | Respond to If one is rational one comes to terms every day with one's mistakes. And one makes the apologies one wants to make WHEN one makes the mistakes. Ruminating about it later makes very little sense to me. It seems silly to save that all up for death. And why should one need forgiveness for anything one does, really? Forgiveness is a human social construct, that greases the social skids. When one is leaving society permanently in death- forgiveness really only matters to the people you leave behind- it is compassionate to make them feel better, I suppose- but forgiveness makes no differences to the dying unless they BELIEVE it does. You are bounded by that belief, I am not. After all I'm still not convinced we are actually in charge of what we do. I am born with a set genetic code to parents who also have a set genetic codes and a history that makes them act the way they do. They raise me as they have been programmed to do (of course they are programmed in such a sophisticated way, it isn't analogous to computer programming- but I use the word because I can't think of a better one). They interact with me, working on my genetic platform, as every other individual acts upon me. Now believing I have free will, or at least acting like I do, allows me to take moral responsibility for what I do, and is a variable affecting my actions- so in a sense it DOES matter if I at least act like I am in control. But really, we are all limited by our genetics, our backgrounds, and by every action we have taken up until the point of our death. There is nothing to forgive in being what you are. I can always, I suppose, regret I was not someone else, or that I did not do something that I was not able to do- but why should I waste my time in that way. Things were the way they were, they were not otherwise- why regret it? Why ask for forgiveness? You mention it because it is important to you. You BELIEVE it is important. It does not have to be thus.
