Haqi,
I am very sadden by all of this. I would honor your request to not post to you again, but I feel that if I left things as they currently stand, I would be remiss. I had hoped that I could participate in this forum without revealing my identity to you. Not to deceive you, but to be able to talk to you (and others, especially, others) as a normal human being, man to man. I felt revealing my identity to you would crowd you.
My issue with you is not really Santiago. I do believe in what I said in regards to that discussion, but it was not really the reason I first posted to you (this time). It was the disparaging, false and offensive things you have said, and continue to say, about my mother. To refer to her as a "lying heathen" is totally uncalled for!
I do not think you have the right to comment about whether she is as pure as the driven snow. And what you said in January, well, I am surprised anyone has anything to do with you what-so-ever!? The lies and false accusations abound. You called her a liar because she did not graduate from college. She never said she did. She said yes to college and left degree blank. Now, if she was claiming to have graduated, certainly she would have put something down for degree, wouldn't she have? You are a liar. She went to college and you know I know it! You said she printed photos of your current wife. Another lie. Colleen was not then and, to my understanding, is not NOW your wife. My understanding is that she is not even yet divorced!!!!
Your refer to my mother as "talking the talk, but not walking the walk". And you? What about you? Tell me about your walk. My Mom walks the walk, with shortcomings as well all have, but she does walk upright.
Your crack about estrogen and testosterone, besides being typically vulgar, was ridiculous. Are saying she injects testosterone or something? What are you saying? You're lying, that's what you are doing. You say she uses language like a sailor one minute and praises the Lord the next. Again, a lie. And you know, I know that. Your crack about the douche thing... well, I don't even need to comment about that one. Unbelievable.
You say were saved from the brink of destruction. Have you been? "If a man says he believes in God, but has not love for his brother. He is a liar" And you have the audacity to call her bitter!?!?! I know of no one on SI who has the reputation as a bitter individual like you do.
Would you like to extend the same offer to me... the one to post your real name, date of birth and where you mother resides? Would ya? Do YOU know where you mother resides now? Shall you say I am into my cups? And then you go on and taunt her in a most merciless and gruesome fashion. How horrible!
You criticize her for not earning enough money, even lying that she earns none, when you know full well that she reduced her level of work to cook for you a special diet needed for your health. To tend to your needs. You call her despicable?! And, yes, things are being written down.
BTW, it is as I told you some time ago (when you asked me) that Mark is NOT Midnight Cowboy. I asked him again last night to be sure. I went to his house today and looked at his computer. Do you question whether or not I have the computer literacy to determine this?
And further, I, your youngest son, DID NOT tell you my mother was not hurting. In fact, I have on numerous occasions let you know how much she was hurting. How VERY much! You summarily dismissed this as "dramatics". Hmmm, let me see... you start an online relationship behind everyone's back, then when discovered, you simply bail out on everyone and your responsibilities, move away to be with your new love and then turn and attack those that YOU treated so badly. Dramatics, huh? I have no respect for you. I am ashamed of you and ashamed to be your son. (That's a lowercase "s" for the record)
I bring these things up publicly because it is the format in which YOU chose to berate, ridicule and torment my mother. I have tried to reason with you privately. This did not achieve anything. I bring these things up so that those who encounter you will know of the character of who they deal with. Also, that you may be brought to repentance and be saved. That is truly my desire for you. It grieves me greatly to be doing this, but I fear for your soul.
It grieved me to hear you say you have no heirs. Do you deny I and my brother's existence? You can no longer.
I pray for you and Colleen. I hope everyone will. I myself need prayer. As does my brother and my mother. This has been very hard on all of us.
Colleen, I appreciate your sentiment towards my mother and who you thought was my brother. I think there's hope for you! I don't really know you, but I have only a little against you. If my dad won't turn around, save yourself. This is not worth Hell's Fire!
Haqi, I am somewhat familiar with the posting rules here. I do not think I am violating them. I think it was you that violated them with the things you said, but no one complained. "All that has to happen for evil to prevail, is for good men to do nothing". I am sure you will try to get me kicked off as well. So be it. My only concern is for you to get right with God.
I am done with you except for our business needs. I will not associate with someone who claims to be Christian and behaves as you do. The Bible forbids me to do so. The fact you are my earthly dad does not seem to be an acceptable reason to violate this teaching.
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