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Politics : Sharks in the Septic Tank -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Lane3 who wrote (20150)8/1/2001 11:44:09 AM
From: one_less  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 82486
 
Two normal rational adults (A & B) find themselves at a conference together for a week. They are assigned to the same project and find themselves bonding in a huge way. It becomes one of those seemingly encapsulated episodes. Toward the end of the conference the drinks are flowing quite heavily and of course these two are getting pretty heavy....etc etc. Then they go home to their real lives. The husband of A is on the company bowling team with B. Does this just lie there dormantly for the rest of A, B and husband of A's lives. Not usually and it us usually much more complicated that just A's husband. I would call that illicit. At a minimum Oaths have been exchanged between A and her husband which are now violated. Vows and obligations to parents also make premarital sex a violation of significant others. Steven (and you) releases his kids from obligations like this so that complicates things. When parents, or significant others who have a role in your future are decieved, I would say the affair is illicit. The simplest resolution to the question about whether something is illicit or not is a marriage declaration. Every thing else becomes suspect.