To: one_less who wrote (47457 ) 5/15/2002 4:20:11 PM From: The Philosopher Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 82486 You can not move this issue one way or another (On SI) without one of you agreeing to totally accommodate the other. Poet's absense makes accommodating her outside the accessable boundaries. I don't understand what you're suggesting here. What do you think Poet's total accomodation to me would be, and what would mine to her be? Would total accomodation to me be Poet agreeing to re-establish our earlier posting relationship where we posted back and forth freely and comfortably? In the long run that would, if it's possible, be IMO an ideal outcome, but at this point it's obviously not on the short-term cards. So I'm not even asking for total accomodation. I'm only asking for a compromise. I'm not asking Poet to post to me. I'm not asking her to let me post to her. I'm only asking her to allow me freedom to post to others without posting to our about her. Which is, at least as far as I know, what she has publicly said she wants. So we are now seeing some pretty serious posts regarding court testimony, test case, etc. I cautioned you about this some time ago. Our society being as lawsuit-crazy as it is, I'm not surprised at the talk of litigation. That's happened before on SI, and will happen again. But I believe that if anybody here consults a competent attorney they will be advised to forget it. I have mentioned to you several of the legal problems that would ensue. But there would also be considerable emotional pain. I wrote a paragraph about that here, intending simply to be objective and factual, but I found there was no way I could phrase it without a risk, if not a probability, of at least some people thinking I was making threats. So I dropped it. But any competent attorney will understand what such litigation would entail. And even if the litigation were successful, what would be the best outcome Poet could expect? She could get an order that I not post to or about her. But that's no victory, since I've already offered that. She almost certainly couldn't get an order that I not post on SI at all. Courts tend to fashion the least intrusive remedy, and I doubt a court would go that far on these facts. And they might toss the whole thing out on the grounds that she had a perfectly adequate remedy in the use of the ignore feature, and it's her responsibility that she chose not to use it. I don't know how a court would actually rule. But it's hard to see what benefit people think would ensue from such a proceeding.