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Politics : Sharks in the Septic Tank -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Neocon who wrote (47803)5/17/2002 10:40:58 AM
From: E  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 82486
 
This is in your "initiating post."

but I keep stumbling on the fact that I really have no very good idea of what happened in the first place, especially in a way that I can verify independently of the parties to the dispute.

Fortunately, you can now verify independently. The party who claims he has justification for what he did can now show it.

Do you disagree with anything in this post, that I sent you earlier?

If it is deeply distressing to its recipient, the subject of the innuendo and insinuation and unwelcome attention, and she makes clear that it is, and her friends do, too; if she begs him to stop; if her husband does the same; if he claims his attentions are somehow justified, but because we see only "the tip of the iceberg" he can't prove it; if he is given leave to show the whole iceberg and refuses...

....When you cause suffering, do it protractedly, repeatedly, and knowingly, that is not called "jerkiness," it's called sadism and obsession.



To: Neocon who wrote (47803)5/17/2002 11:27:50 AM
From: Lane3  Read Replies (6) | Respond to of 82486
 
One of the fascinating aspects of this perpetual soap opera has been the polarization. I can tell that you are trying to see both sides and I respect that, so I'm breaking my silence to give you a different view of "both sides."

I think that you and Dithers make good points.

Even if one is appalled at the histrionics surrounding the accusations or by the middle-school-girls' behavior or by the piling on, however, the bottom line is simple: in any fight, ANY fight, when one party cries "uncle" or "no mas, no mas" or "I beg you to stop," you stop.

I broke my silence once before for this series of posts:

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To:Christopher Hodgkin who wrote (44340)
From: kholt Tuesday, Feb 19, 2002 10:16 AM
View Replies (3) | Respond to of 47612

Well, IMHO, there's no way you can gracefully deflect JLA's proposal.
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To:kholt who wrote (44347)
From: Christopher Hodgkin Tuesday, Feb 19, 2002 12:04 PM
View Replies (2) | Respond to of 47612

Well, if that's true, I guess I may just have to be ungraceful.
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To:Christopher Hodgkin who wrote (44445)
From: kholt Wednesday, Feb 20, 2002 5:16 PM
View Replies (1) | Respond to of 47795

Earlier I suggested that there was no way to evade this gracefully. Perhaps I was too subtle, so I will rephrase. Because there is no way to not accept this reasonable deal without appearing for all to see to be a horse's ass. That's why.
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Like Arafat, he should have taken the deal. I wrote him off then. I suggest that you should have, too.

Enough, already!

FWIW

Karen