To: greenspirit who wrote (262429 ) 6/9/2002 9:03:44 PM From: Kevin Rose Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 769670 Well written post. I agree that children need some moral compass as a means of making decisions as adults. However, I disagree that this moral training must be religious. We are raising our children with a non-religious moral code, and they haven't ax murdered anyone yet... Seriously, I agree with the intent, but not the means (as the sole means). I believe the key problem is not secularity, but irresponsible parents. Parents need to take the responsibility to instruct their children as to what is right and wrong. Unfortunately, in a media-intensive world, there are plenty of negative examples. Crooked politicians, egotistical sports superstars, corrupt businessmen, immoral religious leaders. With all these negative examples, many of whom receive a lot of media attention. Today's problems are simply more complex than before. Religious tolerance, for example, was rarely necessary in many parts of the country, where Christianity prevailed. Jews and member of other religions had their own communities that were often deliberately segregated. Races were separated, and rarely mingled. The problem of intolerance was not nearly as much of an issue years ago, because of these isolations. To say that America is becoming less moral is, in my opinion, incorrect. We simply have a different set of challenges and lessons to teach. Religious and racial tolerance has increased dramatically in that last 50 years. We are of course too old to remember, but there were regular racial and religious lynchings in America, as well as deadly race riots. Outside of much less deadly flareups (e.g. LA riots), people today are much more tolerant of differences in their fellow man. I agree that there are many more 'gray' areas than before. But, that is not necessarily a bad thing. Instead of the old black and white standards (e.g. blacks sit at the back of the bus, period), there are now more complex issues (e.g. should a child from a disadvantaged background get some assistance in catching up). As a child raised in CA, we spent summers in Alabama. Not being from the area, we were stunned by the intolerance. Restrooms labeled Men, Women, and Colored. White Only drinking fountains. Relatives complaining about the 'uppity niggers'. Today, there is much more equality and tolerance between the races. In my book, that is a more 'moral' society. The age of communication opens our children up to a lot of evil influences. Pedophiles, drugs, underage drinking, premarital sex, etc, are more likely to come into our children's view than before. As parents, we need to deal with a new set of challenges. Whether you instill the moral compass by teaching the Bible, Torah, Koran, or common sense, is immaterial. But it is the most important task a parent has.