To: zonder who wrote (67185 ) 12/19/2002 1:24:40 PM From: michael97123 Respond to of 70976 If at first you dont succeed......It is important to me that we can dialogue so try try again. 1."Think of me as half-way in between. If my views seem very different to you (which is surprising to me, actually) then the actual "split" is more than twice as wide." Half way between what. Please define that for us. It comes across after re-reading that you are half way between al quaida and the US. I dont believe you mean to say that. 2."I have never even believed in God, so if I have a sympathy towards people of the Middle East, it is because I lived there a long time and I think of them as human beings just like you think of your neighbours, rather than some crazies to be nuked. I see the human side of this conflict. I saw how those people lived before, how they live now. I know their hopes and dreams about their children. " What does believing in God have to with the rest of this paragraph? I do believe in God but didnt ever consider that to be a pre-req for a caring humanistic person. I agree with the rest of what you say. Refer to my previous posts re: silent majority and marshall plan."I also know well something you would never guess reading the papers - that the fanatics are a small minority. The rest just follow their traditions - they fast all day for a month, they sacrifice a lamb on a specific day, they pray. They are human. " OF course they are human and the fanatics are a small minority. Do you believe us americans or at least those of us who support US current policy to be barbaric? When i say the solution for a terrorist is a bullet i am referring to the terrorists only. Since 9/11 i have befriended many Moslem and Sikh folks. I have helped them here at work. I worried for their safety and escorted them to work when we came back after 9/11. To a person they all say that only in the US can they get such fair treatment from a people who were attacked by folks with similar religous belliefs. And the Sikhs are particularly thankful for the outpouring of american sentiment toward them when some were victimized immmediately after the attack. If you dont believe me re: this point, ask Fred. Bet he will give you similar response re: the goodness of ordinary americans. Perhaps Europeans dont recognize this trait in us, even Bush is as compassionate a person you can find anywhere. "What I find distasteful is the ad hominem statements - you are this, you are that. It does nothing for the quality of the debate, and increases the antagonism. Let's not fall into that trap and I think we are doing fine... " OK and the above comments on my part have nothing in them that you find as and ad hominem attack.