To: marcos who wrote (102430 ) 6/23/2003 8:16:11 AM From: KLP Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 281500 Yes, I've found that when someone is intentionally rude, it closes the eyelids to anything else in the post, or in the actual conversation. Too bad too...when someone is civil to others, even though he/she disagrees, then most probably the rest of us read the thoughts. Sometimes you actually engage someone, and have a fine discussion. For instance, I too think English should be the 1st language of this country, and obviously you don't. I think it should be for ALL sorts of reasons. After being a recruiter for over 20 years, I know first hand that if two candidates have the same talents, skills, and all else is equal, except one is more fluent in English than another, the one more fluent in English will get the job. Especially in small companies, where they don't have the funds and time to have an on staff interpreter...Mostly it's time today. I hate discrimination, and have worked hard to see that it doesn't happen. But companies are peopled by people, and all the baggage they bring with them to the job. That doesn't mean however, that people should ever give up their native language...It should be considered it a great asset, as well as their customs they share with others. Notice I said "share", not force upon others. That is where trouble starts, no matter where in the world it happens. If one doesn't like the laws of a country, then one shouldn't go there. BTW, I have done family genealogy for nearly 30 years, and descend from people from all parts of the world. And yes, some of them were discriminated against when they came here. Irish for instance. One was even a "white slave" dislocated by Cromwell in 1642 and sent to the Barbados as a slave. He did escape eventually, came to this country, and many of his descendants are folks that we see in the news on a frequent basis. You asked about "my standards". Golden Rule is my goal in nearly everything I do. In the header for this Board, FL posted the rules of the "road"...including this: Rudeness is considered Off Topic. Before you join the discussion please read (and heed) this article by Jane Gault: Message 18475463 ;