To: Neocon who wrote (72001 ) 8/7/2003 8:51:59 AM From: Lane3 Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 82486 I think that is legitimate. I think the argument that produced your rule is legitimate, too. Not necessarily, better, but legitimate. :) I just have a problem with the rule. I don't see why it is necessary to establish the rule given that it is hurtful to some while being unnecessary. After all, for want of a rule, it's not like billions of people are going to rush off to fill the vacuum by becoming homosexuals. Insisting on a rule to codify the supremacy of one over the other seems like piling on to me. It legitimizes and gives aid and comfort to those who would bully and suppress. That may not be your intent, but it's the natural effect. We don't go around making the point that it is better to be sighted than blind or ambulatory rather than confined to a wheelchair. It's not nice and it's unnecessary.the electorate prefers to reserve marriage to heterosexuals, even while trying to accommodate homosexuals with civil union Do you not see a conflict between supporting the Constitutional amendment while supporting the establishment of a civil union option? I realize that, in practice, they can coexist. I have no problem with having separate institutions of marriage and civil union. In fact, I proposed that way early in this discussion. But there is a big difference in the tenor of the messages. I doubt that many of those who advocate the amendment want to also create civil unions or that many of the proponents of civil unions would also endorse the amendment. You could probably count the number who advocate both without taking off your shoes. Is your read of that different from mine?