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To: Slugger who wrote (13129)10/20/2003 2:54:39 AM
From: Neeka  Respond to of 793689
 
We are simply two parents who don't want our daughter to be raised in a culture in which young men are taught that women have less intrinsic worth than men - or that the most basic unit of society can somehow be complete without a woman.

Speaking from a woman's point of view, this reminds me of the Middle East and the way women are seen....or rather not seen......there.

It is a very good point, and the concept is totally unacceptable and unworkable in modern society.

M



To: Slugger who wrote (13129)10/20/2003 3:40:04 AM
From: Bill Ulrich  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 793689
 
Sticking to a "dual-sex marriage only" agenda doesn't preserve the value of women, nor the sanctity of the institution. Many dual-sex marriages do a splendid job of devalueing both on their own.

• Men who marry "arm trophies" just for that specific reason
• Women who marry for money (in which case, the women devalue themselves)
• Marriages that stay together "only for the kids", even though partners despise each other
• Dual-sex marriages where one partner is gay but wants/is pressured to keep up appearances
• "Arranged" marriages

(...the latter two being more rare but still taking place). In the instance of a "two-tux" wedding, women aren't in the picture beforehand, thus the act of performing the rite of confirmation does nothing further to impart any sense of (lesser) value upon women.

In light of all the above, committing to a lasting union with the person you truly love is (at the very least) a bit more &#151 honest?

"I don't understand how you can go from the "pursuit of happiness" straight to the right of a person to marry who (or even what) they choose to marry."



To: Slugger who wrote (13129)10/20/2003 4:11:57 AM
From: Dayuhan  Respond to of 793689
 

I don't understand how you can go from the "pursuit of happiness" straight to the right of a person to marry who (or even what) they choose to marry.

What could be more intrinsic to the pursuit of happiness than the right to marry the person you want to marry?

The government has no right to constrain any individual from a desired course of action unless that course of action would violate the rights of other individuals. That's why we call it a free country, isn't it?

There is only one meaningful question here, to me: would a marriage between two men violate any legal right of any other individual. If it doesn't, it's none of my business, none of your business, and certainly none of the government's business.



To: Slugger who wrote (13129)10/20/2003 5:44:31 AM
From: Lane3  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 793689
 
Indeed, "gay marriage" teaches that the most basic unit of human society - marriage - does not need a woman to be complete.

That's odd. Somehow I thought that we were a nation of individuals, each complete, each with individual rights and privileges. One of those rights is freedom of association. Yes, somehow I thought that each of us gets to choose what and who, if anything, is needed to achieve "completion."