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To: Carolyn who wrote (2033)12/8/2003 8:00:30 PM
From: Oeconomicus  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 90947
 
That he (presumably, he) would even phrase it that way just struck me as funny. ;-)



To: Carolyn who wrote (2033)12/8/2003 8:26:42 PM
From: Lizzie Tudor  Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 90947
 
Plus, the liberals don't understand that the Women's Movement caused women to be worse off today than they were before this thing got started!

You really can't be serious. I'm sure there are some people who honestly believe what you do, and then maybe an equal number that think this way with a base emotion of jealousy or envy. But that has to be the fringe. I don't think too many women want to go back to the days when they had 3 options in their careers, teaching, nursing or secretarial.

Mostly I find that when people try to downplay "womens issues", like say the abortion debate, it is because they are unable to cope with the situation at hand, so they try to downplay it. Like, "I can vote on this pro life bill and satisfy my constituency because these womens issues are overdone." The truth is these issues are just as hot as they ever were. In Bush's case he is no friend to women but it doesn't matter because he doesn't have too many friends anyway!



To: Carolyn who wrote (2033)12/8/2003 10:14:29 PM
From: mph  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 90947
 
Here's my perspective regarding women and what faces them in today's world:

Women want choices.
They should be entitled to choices.
However, for many women, the possible
choices do not include being a full
time wife and mother (i.e., a stay at home mom)

In some cases, this is because the family needs
the second income.

In other cases, it's because the family, the wife
and/or the husband LIKE the second income more
than they LIKE the idea of full time caring for
the kids.

In still other cases, it's because women feel
they MUST work outside the home in order
to feel like real, and worthwhile, persons.

(Remember Hillary's disparaging comments
about the fact that she didn't sit at home
and bake cookies?)

If the women's movement is to be considered
a success, it seems to me that the outcome
has to be one of choice.

( The same goes for men.
There are stay at home husbands.
Sometimes the economics dictate that outcome.
(She makes more than he does. He lost his job.
He likes to cook, whereas she hates it. Whatever.)

But cutting to the very bottom line, whether
a person has an array of viable choices depends
on other choices they made:

-dropping out of school vs. going to college
-getting pregnant at age 16 vs. not doing that
-taking a grocery checker's job at age 20 and
staying in it until age 50, instead of trying
to improve one's wage earning capacity.

Now, lest you think I am being unfair, bear in
mind that working shifts in a grocery store, while
physically tiring while one is on duty, does not
involve the cumulative stresses faced by those with
more responsible jobs.

Accordingly, it's a trade off.

Any career and family choices a person makes
necessarily has an effect on his or her lifestyle.

And you can't blame everything on government.
That's too facile and a cop out.

I myself am a beneficiary of the
women's movement, having entered what
was once a predominantly male profession.
I'm very grateful for the opportunities I've had.

But, not one of those opportunities would
have come to me had I not worked my way through
school, as a starving student, earned a scholarship,
taken out student loans, eschewed long vacations
and basically worked my u-know-what off.

I know many women from my high school class who
never attended college and who chose other paths
which limited their choices (primarily from a
financial standpoint).

So, yes, the women's movement was a good thing.
It opened the options for women.

But how each woman uses those options is
entirely up to her.

(Just like it is for men.)

Do I think that's bad?
No.

Did women have it easier in some respects
before the women's revolution?
Maybe yes in some cases.

There was less pressure to make
choices, because the choices were more
limited and more traditional.

just my 2 cents.