To: epicure who wrote (4635 ) 5/9/2004 10:58:01 PM From: coug Respond to of 51758 Hi X, Happy Mother's Day. And thanks for thinking of me. :). re: "You too Coug- what are the books that changed your life? And which books would you recommend to a high school student?" That's a pretty heavy assignment. :) I read that this morning and thought about it on and off this day.. And I can't come up with an answer. I am honest, Washo didn't eat my homework.<g> I guess the reason, I can't come up with an answer, is that no books really changed my life. But some books and movies too reinforced my beliefs that were galvanized by real life events. I learned I was not alone and that is so important, IMO, to one's life. All life, really.. And it is still happening even here on SI, as it is a dynamic process. As you probably know, I never was in classics per se, I have read stuff like, if these are considered classic. "The Old Man and the Sea" and "For Whom the Bell Tolls" early on.. And more similar works from Jack London and the collected poems of Robert Service.. I guess the common denominator of my reading interest is the "common man/woman" against all odds. And moving on to other artistic forms. Works from Picasso for example exhibited my feelings toward war and peace. And talking about war, I early on picked up a book about WWII and was so sickened by the accounts. And I remember once when I was young, our whole family drove into town on Saturday night to see a movie. We never picked them out, we just went in to see what was playing. No choice. We done that a lot. My dad and mom loved movies. So the movie that evening was some war movie about the Korean War, I don't remember the name. But it showed at the beginning, an American soldier ready and finally, reluctlantly shooting an enemy soldier that was leading a tank.. I couldn't believe it. Killing somebody you didn't want to for some reason you know not of.. that scene is indelibly etched in my mind.. And it is just from a grade B movie.. But it was classic to me.. And other classic events that changed my life were the "Gulf of Tonkin" incident from afar. And up close and personal was a young heifer that just gave birth to a calf that literally died in my hands trying to help her, but appreciated my efforts.. I really realized there was a relationship between all life and how valuable it was.. I put my guns away soon after.. The guns that were used for hunting, a way of life in the rural west, but I soon realized were not needed for my survival.. So I quit.. I just quit, because I realized i did not have to do that anymore.. as I should now quit... Take care.. m