To: tejek who wrote (281128 ) 3/21/2006 11:15:06 PM From: Amy J Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 1572885 RE: "but I really think its the parents mostly" I agree. Can a parent take the day off of work so s/he can help his child adjust to a new situation? RE: "They all looked at me in shock.....as if I had a say in the matter. <g>" Good for you! Check this out Tejek, this is really sad: " In the United States, nearly 3.3 million people age 19 and younger used an ADHD drug in 2005, according to Medco Health Solutions Inc."news.yahoo.com They should make this drug illegal unless there are extraordinary conditions. You know, I worked with mentally ill children during the summer once, and those that were heavily on drugs simply had their drugs interfere with their ability to learn. Some of these children were so doped up. Some of their caretakers would drug them up so they would be "easy" to take care of - like drugged up sheep - their caretakers couldn't handle the challenge. I had one child that wasn't doped up (she lived in a better home) and she would try to bang her head against the wall due to her illness, and I would simply put her desk away from the wall and if she tried to bang her head on the desktop my hand was always faster than her head and I would put my hand between her head and the desk and gently say to her, "please don't hurt my hand." She would never hurt me, only herself. So she would never bang her head if my hand was there. Little by little, I tried to help her understand that her head has value like my hand. Towards the end of school, she didn't bang her head like she tried to in the beginning partly because of the training but also because I could "sense" when she was about to do it before she even moved, and I tried to deal with that. That sense was based upon the fact you could detect something wasn't going right for her that day. Also, after the first day, I simply put something with padding (i.e. magazine) on her desk that would protect her head if she did try to bang her head - and the magazine was a better thing to have her peel than banging her head. I don't think we should drug children up, but instead should change their environment for them until they learn to adjust/cope. I got an award from that job and its one that I'm probably most proud of. Drugs should not be given to children. They weren't given to children in the 70s unless for extreme situations, so there's no reason to give them to children now. These children will not learn to cope. Drugs prohibit the ability to learn and grow. It should be outlawed, with the exception of extreme cases. Regards, Amy J