To: Elroy who wrote (286514 ) 5/5/2006 6:09:40 PM From: tejek Respond to of 1575087 Things are different here. I am not sure I can give the specifics that will make it clear to you. I think you have to be here to understand. Recently, I've begun to realize that given where you are located, you are only getting some of what's happening here. Living overseas (which I have done for extended periods three times in my lifetime) what I have learned is how great a place is America is, even if the grammar in that sentence isn't quite spot on. Yes, I had similar reactions when I would go overseas....even when I went to Europe. I think part of it is simple nostalgia particularly when your stay turns into months and years. Plus, its not unusual to convince yourself that the way your country does things is much better than the one you currently are visiting.You may have issues with the USA compared to some idealized fantasyland, but compared to most other countries on the planet it is a fantastic place to live, full of opportunity. The US values individuals based on their own merit instead of their family/wealth/connections. I have issues with the US involving itself in the affairs of other nations that have nothing to do with it or its defense, or in taking sides with people who are tyrants and torture their own people. No matter how many good works we do within the US, they do offset the bad America has done all over the world during the past 50 years. And while I know there are worse countries, I have always believed that they did not set the standard for the US. Rather, I would prefer to follow the standards of countries that are not manipulative and that do not side with dishonest, dangerous and corrupt leaders because it serves their purposes. Isn't Bill Clinton exactly the rags to riches story that you are saying no longer exists? Didn't his father either leave or die before he was 12, his brother was a semi-alcoholic, his mother was by no means wealthy, he's from freakin' ARKANSAS, and he ends up President of the USA twice simply because he's brilliant? Yes, there is always the example of someone who has made the rags to riches journey, and so the myth is perpetuated. And the way Clintons made it was working as government 'servants' for 30 years and then writing books about their experience. While many doubt the rags to richers was ever true, it is definitely not true now. Here is one of several studies on the subject: "The likelihood that a child born into a poor family will make it into the top five percent is just one percent, according to "Understanding Mobility in America," a study by economist Tom Hertz from American University.By contrast, a child born rich had a 22 percent chance of being rich as an adult, he said."news.yahoo.com Here is another excerpt from the actual study: "By international standards, the United States has an unusually low level of intergenerational mobility: our parents’ income is highly predictive of our incomes as adults. Intergenerational mobility in the United States is lower than in France, Germany, Sweden, Canada, Finland, Norway and Denmark. Among high-income countries for which comparable estimates are available, only the United Kingdom had a lower rate of mobility than the United States."americanprogress.org What's sad is that the American rags to riches dream should be true. You have to ask yourself why it isn't.America will be in decline when people born their immigrate en masse to other better places to live. I'm the extreme oddball these days, a native northern Californian that lives outside the US instead of inside the San Francisco Bay Area. I think being outside the US I have a much better perspective on the US position relative to the rest of the world than you do. Not necessarily. I go back to what I said up above........its been my experience that wherever I've gone in the world, the US always looks better. And if you believe the myth of the large and growing American middle class, and the rags to riches myth and also believe that the wealth of the affluent is confined, and then throw in a few Tom Cruise, Julia Roberts and Georgy Clooney movies with some incredible shots of say SF or NYC, how can you not believe America is the best in the world. Unfortunately, the facts don't agree with your premise. You would probably go to Disneyworld and see it as an entertainment complex which is past its prime and in decline.... Interesting.......your defense is mostly anecdotal so you look for a way to put down what I am saying. Before you can make things better, you have to deal with what the reality is. Pretending America is one thing when its another is the nutritional equivalent of eating cotton candy for dinner and thinking it will make you healthy.