To: RMF who wrote (553 ) 8/5/2006 5:33:23 PM From: Brumar89 Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 1695 I don't agree at all. When the public has been given an opportunity to vote on the issue, gay marriage has always lost. In the long run, the will of the people will prevail. When people realize that the advocates of gay marriage want more than just gay marriage but a radical restructuring of the meaning of marriage it will become even more unpopular. Not every liberal issue succeeds. The Equal Rights Amendment was never ratified. In the 1800's, there was a "free love" movement and there were free love communes (like the Oneida Society) established in the US. Someone named Victoria Woodhull, the "high priestess of free love" ran for President as a free love candidate. This movement produced nothing except probably postponing womens suffrage. Liberal ideas which are too radical and seek the destruction of long established beneficial institutions do not succeed. In 1890, people were saying the same things about women voting that they're saying about gay marriage today. It would "tear apart the fabric of society". Some may have said this but if was really that unpopular, the amendment allowing female suffrage would never have passed, like the ERA didn't. In 1940 the idea that blacks and whites should be integrated was considered unimaginable and if it ever happened it would surely, "tear apart the fabric of society". I'm sure a lot of people in many parts of the country thought this. The civil rights movement didn't succeed by promising to destroy established institutions though, it succeeded by seeking the goal of extending those institutions to a class that has been denied entrance. In 1910 if a doctor had said he had done a successful heart transplant he would have been dragged out and hung, along with his patient, for an act so heinous that it "defiled the very fabric of society". No he wouldn't. He would have been lionized. Why would anyone have objected in 1910. There is no moral issue involved in heart transplants. For that matter there were no moral issues involved in black-white intergation of female suffrage either. However, all traditional codes of morality have a big problem with homosexuality.