To: Dale Baker who wrote (30047 ) 10/14/2006 12:32:37 AM From: epicure Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 541453 That's such a good read- and if it were written by someone from the right, who was upset about "jokes" from the left, it would be just as good. Just like making Polish folks the butt of jokes, or Italians, or blacks, such "jokes" have a huge element of intended cruelty- and pointing it out is not, imo, PC (as folks who love these jokes like to cry)- pointing out that such jokes are hurtful and shouldn't be aimed at others is what we used to call manners. If you go out intentionally to trash someone for no other reason than that you hate them because of their group affiliation, that's rude. It's many other things as well, but I think all of us can agree it's very rude. Most of us were lucky enough to have parents who probably told us not to insult people, not to call names, not to bully people, not to be intentionally cruel- why adults sometimes forget this, who can say? I'm sure the need to bond with a group plays in to it, and insecurity, and emotional problems- but none of those things are an acceptable reason for rudeness- they may be an explanation, but an explanation is not an excuse. I'm tired of seeing people on the right belittle people on the left and vice versa. I think it's fine to target the ideas of someone else, but some people really really need to work on separating the person from the idea. A person who has a different political orientation may still be a good father, a good mother, a nice neighbor, a fine employee, a good person- and it would be good if people could keep that in mind. It's clear that some people can't, right now, but I think we can all hope that in the fullness of time more and more people can. We all have our humanity in common. However we may disagree, we have many many things in common. I find it depressing that some people forget that, and choose to take the very lowest roads. It's too bad. On the other hand, most people are pretty nice, and most people don't tell cruel jokes, and most people aren't bullies and bigots, so that's the good news.