To: tejek who wrote (318283 ) 1/4/2007 6:48:46 PM From: Brumar89 Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 1575523 Do you know any poor people? I suspect not. Not only do I know some, I'm related to some. I've got a cousin who married a woman who is good for spending money and suing people. Thats it. She browbeat my cousin into putting her name on the little family farm he inherited from his mothers side of the family. She borrowed against the farm and they ultimately lost it. The lawsuits - once she was in line at Walmart and a clerk pitched a set of keys to the next one - while passing over her head it brushed her hair. She claimed it hit her head and injured her and sued Walmart. Another time she went with one of her high school age daughter's on a school visit to a nearby college. While there she tripped on a sidewalk and got a lawsuit out of that. She generally collects a modest settlement on these things. She hasn't worked in years - everyone in the region knows from her history she'll sue them over alleged personal injuries or sexual harassment. She started out suing over sexual harassment, but has switched to slip and fall, personal injury claims over the years. My cousin, her husband, used to work - he was a mechanic and drove a cement truck for many years. But over the years she convinced him he should stop working and get in the disability game. So he did, though not very successfully. Now they are living in a beat up little rented house out in the hills and have nothing. I've got another cousin who hasn't worked in over 30 years. He seldom even leaves the house he inherited from his parents. The only work he ever did was janitor work. I don't know why - he's intelligent and perfectly capable of doing lots of things. I don't understand why he would rather sit at home and not work but thats what he does. I could tell you about some more I'm related to but I figure this is enough. Since he lives paycheck to paycheck, he couldn't pay his December rent. So he moved into his car. He finally landed a somewhat permanent temp job in a warehouse about two weeks ago. However, at the rate he is paid, he figures it will take two months to get up the security deposit and first month's rent. What is missing here is his family and friends. Ah, you said he has no family. Some folks have no family or friends but most do. And most people get help from their family or friends at times like that - its one of the reasons families are so important to society. As a matter of fact, I paid a relative's rent payment just today. They've given me a little of it and will be paying me back over a few weeks - mostly, I think anyway. Course, this guy might not have any family or friends (except the one that give you a lottery ticket). Or he may have ruined the relationships by past exploitation. You may not realize it but having to scrape by for a while may be very valuable at teaching the virtue of saving for a rainy day - some people only learn lessons the hard way. Now I know you'd say he can't save - he lives from paycheck to paycheck. But the fact is most people really can save if they really try. Man, you can live on beans and rice etc and never eat even fast food, you don't smoke, you don't buy lottery tickets, etc. It's possible to do. And yet we don't care and we make up stories like the one you created which is that their lot in life is improving and that's more than good enough, ignoring the fact that the rich who already have very satisfying lives are moving up much faster. Frankly, from experience, I know its not good enough. You have a problem with the fact that life isn't fair. That life can be hard. But it always has been and always will be. This is why traditional family values and traditional work ethic, thrift, and personal responsibility values are so important. What you don't get is that if you hire govt bureaucrats and pay them a nice salary with good benefits to follow around the people who don't live by the right values, they'll never learn to do so. Furthermore, you'll erode the values of many many more people so that the number of people who need a govt bureaucrat to follow them around picking them up over and over mushrooms. It took years for the first cousin I mentioned to be demoralized by his worthless wife, but it finally happened. There are 37 million Americans whose lives are marginalized because people like you feel its abhorrent to create a safety net for them but its more than okay to blow a trillion dollars on an Iraq. The more you create a great liberal safety net, the more people there will be who will rely on it. How this guy was able to keep up his positive outlook was beyond me. You may not believe this but some people who live on the street are happy too. Some people don't feel the need for much security in their life. Its a puzzle to me why but thats the way it is. However, I do know that every time he lands on the street the more damage he does to his body and his well being. Dental apptments become non existent. I had another SI liberal tell me one time how important dental care was - the government should provide everybody with dental insurance he said. Meanwhile I haven't had a dental appt since at least 1998. Whats the matter with me? Eventually, he will become one of the permanently homeless. I have seen too many scenarios like this one in the land of the home and the brave, and its not good. He may. But he doesn't have to. He may have to try hard but it can be done. This is the land of opportunity. My God, poor people with no education and no English skills sneak into this country because they know they can work here. Which brings me to one thing we could do to help out the lowest rung of American society (w/o creating more of a nanny state) - keep out the wetbacks who take (and bid down the wages of) the jobs the least educated Americans could have. Wages for the simplest jobs would be higher w/o lots of foreigners competing for them and the jobs available to American poor would be numerous. That wouldn't help the two cousins I mentioned earlier unless they changed their thought processes but it'd help guys like the fellow you met at the casino.