To: Riskmgmt who wrote (34016 ) 4/28/2008 9:37:42 PM From: Ilaine Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 217709 You might not know that I have a Chinese stepmother, with a lot of Chinese female friends, many of whom have married American men and many of the rest are looking for the opportunity! It's weird, considering how many Chinese families selectively aborted female fetuses, why do you even pretend that women are considered equal to men in China? The numbers don't lie. Meanwhile, in India, being set on fire by your scamming husband and his rip-off clan is still not a crime that gets prosecuted. Meanwhile, in Pakistan, public rape is considered a good way to keep women in their place. Meanwhile, in the Philippines, young women getting "married" to a Filipino-American man with a real wife in the USA, so common as to not even raise eyebrows. Same for Vietnam, same for South Korea. They all have older hard working wives in the US who hold down two or three jobs plus cater to the man like he was a prince when he comes home, and at least one honey in the old country, and, get this, he's spending HER money on the honey! No red-blooded American woman with a backbone would put up with that. Once these women realize they don't have to, either, well, my door is always open. At this point I've handled divorces for just about every nationality on earth, certainly every Continent except Antarctica. And yes, a lot for Latinas but oddly, despite machismo, Latino men don't expect their wives to let them spend the wife's money on the honey. They have more respect than that. Or it could be the Catholic thing, a puta is a puta. I have a lot of Latina women, the husband just walked out, but he doesn't grind the new relationship in their faces. He has the cojones to let the wife go, not keep her trapped for his advantage. See, what I do, I set prisoners free. It's not the only thing I do, but it's the thing I like the best.