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To: J.B.C. who wrote (111986)5/26/2009 6:58:59 PM
From: Cogito  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 541558
 
>>Actually equality exists now. Any consenting adult male can marry a consenting adult female.<<

JBC -

Sure. That works for you.

If the law said that only consenting people of the same sex could marry, that would be the same kind of equality. Would that be OK with you?

You could also argue that laws restricting marriage between people of different races did not constitute unequal treatment under the law, because they applied equally to people of all races. Any white male could marry any white female, any black man could marry any black woman, etc.

True equal treatment requires that any consenting adult should be able to marry any other consenting adult, as long as they are both otherwise unencumbered and meet whatever the other basic requirements are.

- Allen



To: J.B.C. who wrote (111986)5/26/2009 11:20:15 PM
From: epicure  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 541558
 
That would be like giving you the freedom, in a homosexual universe, to marry any adult male you wanted to. My guess is you wouldn't find such freedom all that liberating.

I recognize that some people find it absolutely impossible to imagine themselves in other people's shoes, when the shoes are really different, but that lack of imagination doesn't make the situation here any more equitable.

Giving someone an option they cannot take advantage of because it is alien to their nature is basically giving them no option. It's even worse to pretend it's an option.

The honest thing to say would be "Screw them- they're different and they shouldn't have the same rights."

Doesn't make honest pretty, or fair, or legal, but it's better than the alternative dishonesty.



To: J.B.C. who wrote (111986)5/27/2009 8:28:24 AM
From: Travis_Bickle  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 541558
 
I think most people would agree that one of the purposes in getting married is that it makes the spouses happier than if they had not married (often turns out not to be the case but that's life).

There is no way in hell that a homosexual and a heterosexual are going to be happier if they marry (assuming the marriage is not a sham).

By denying the homosexual of the right to marry you are denying him or her the happiness that is associated with it. The only possible reason for this denial is pure spite. If the American people want to go down that road then imo I should have the opportunity to pick random strangers and beat them with a stick, it's only fair.



To: J.B.C. who wrote (111986)5/27/2009 11:49:25 AM
From: Suma  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 541558
 
Your example is just a tongue in cheek kind of response as you know the subject to which I was referring. Just because something has always existed and been written into the minds as being the kosher way....... does not mean that any other forms of marriage do not have any validity.