To: Bread Upon The Water who wrote (135614 ) 8/10/2013 7:30:45 PM From: tejek 2 RecommendationsRecommended By Bread Upon The Water John Vosilla
Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 149317 All I can say is that back in the days before welfare became wide spread there was a very strong work ethic in the culture connected with having a family. Now that ethic has been eroded because single parents can survive without working, and no work ethic gets passed on to the children of those parents. I just got back from the gym. Don Lemon on CNN is talking about the same subject. Some interesting points that were brought: *a clip by Malcolm X back in the 1960s I think saying that too many blacks have a slave mentality and wait for whites to tell them what to do or to employ them. *a clip where the FLOTUS is saying that blacks have to stop criticizing a black child who is reading a book by saying he's acting white. Interesting side story about this issue from when I was doing my student teaching..........this was in 2008 when Obama first ran. We were talking about the election in class when one of the kids said they didn't like Obama because he talked white. I said he didn't talk white.........instead I said he talks educated. This started a huge discussion in which the entire class was engaged.......something every teacher dreams about. <g> Of course, the most aware students in the class eventually wanted to know if I was voting for Obama. ;) But in the minority community, acting or behaving what is perceived as white is seen as a negative......esp among young minorities. That has got to change sooner rather than later. *a rapper was incensed that Lemon agreed with Bill O'Reilly on one point and wrote him a long letter. Here are the 5 points Lemon came up with late weekend.......I did not see that show: “Here’s number five. Pull up your pants. If you’re sagging, I mean — I think it’s your self-esteem that is sagging and who you are as a person it’s sagging. Young people need to be taught respect and there are rules. [...] Number four now is the n-word. I understand poetic license, but consider this: I hosted a special on the n-word, suggesting that black people stop using it and that entertainers stop deluding yourselves or themselves and others that you’re somehow taking the word back. [...] Now number three. Respect where you live. Start small by not dropping trash, littering in your own communities. I’ve lived in several predominantly white neighborhoods in my life, I rarely, if ever, witnessed people littering. I live in Harlem now, it’s an historically black neighborhood, every single day I see adults and children dropping their trash on the ground when a garbage can is just feet away. Just being honest here. [...] Number two, finish school. You want to break the cycle of poverty? Stop telling kids they’re acting white because they go to school or they speak proper English. [...] And number one, and probably the most important, just because you can have a baby, it doesn’t mean you should. Especially without planning for one or getting married first. More than 72 percent of children in the African-American community are born out of wedlock. That means absent fathers. And the studies show that lack of a male role model is an express train right to prison and the cycle continues. So, please, black folks, as I said if this doesn’t apply to you, I’m not talking to you. Pay attention to and think about what has been presented in recent history as acceptable behavior. Pay close attention to the hip-hop and rap culture that many of you embrace. A culture that glorifies everything I just mentioned, thug and reprehensible behavior, a culture that is making a lot of people rich, just not you. And it’s not going to.” realclearpolitics.com As I mentioned earlier, some members of the black community are incensed.