SI
SI
discoversearch

We've detected that you're using an ad content blocking browser plug-in or feature. Ads provide a critical source of revenue to the continued operation of Silicon Investor.  We ask that you disable ad blocking while on Silicon Investor in the best interests of our community.  If you are not using an ad blocker but are still receiving this message, make sure your browser's tracking protection is set to the 'standard' level.
Pastimes : Don't Ask Rambi -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Jacques Chitte who wrote (5262)12/15/1997 4:47:00 PM
From: Rambi  Read Replies (4) | Respond to of 71178
 
Alex, but that's exactly why I asked! To hear how others were introduced-or not. And if they found it helpful- or not.
THe boys have certainly had sips of champagne or wine. They both think beer tastes terrible. I wasn't allowed to drink at home, but I also for some reason never drank in college either. It didn't go with my image of myself, I guess. I think probably the use or abuse of alcohol in young people may be tied up more with their feelings about themselves, and the foundations already in place than it does with the specific stance of the parents on drinking.
Your parents were German? We were in a restuarant in Germany sitting next to a table with a young girl (11-12?) drinking a beer. I thought the boys would keel over in horror. They couldn't believe it. I think they half-expected the parents to be struck by lightning for allowing it or maybe they were hoping the little girl would dance on the table and pass out. But I know they thought something should have happened! Boring. They ate and left, and the little girl didn't even stagger.



To: Jacques Chitte who wrote (5262)12/15/1997 5:18:00 PM
From: BlueCrab  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 71178
 
Yup, I think that learning to drink alcohol responsibly is like learning to do anything else responsibly - one learns best by example. And if one of my kids show an interest, we will undoubtedly allow them to try beer or wine. I'd rather they learn to drink in a safe place, under control, than with a bunch of their peers, out of control.