To: pocotrader who wrote (1550383 ) 8/2/2025 12:22:55 PM From: Maple MAGA 2 RecommendationsRecommended By
Respond to We all know what you do... you wish cancer upon them or strangle them... GET HELPMessage 35205948 To: koan who wrote (358291 ) 6/23/2025 4:09:55 PM From: pocotrader Read Replies (2) of 358307 I smoked weed in the 70's, I stopped for a few reasons, it made me sleepy and pot parties were so boring at least booze parties there was action sometimes fighting. Smoking weed screwed up my short term memory which I needed for my job. My very first experience with weed did not go very well, before I say anything else I will state I have never hit or harmed a female, I never even spanked my girls. Anyway so early 70's a buddy who took an art class in California comes back with weed, I had a girl friend and we went to his party, I drank a couple of beers and smoked weed, she got drunk and at some point at the party she was outside screaming bloody murder I tried to get her to stop but she kept screaming, it got to the point I was on top of her with my hands on her throat, I didn't choke her I let her go but I thought WTF. when I drove her home she puked in my car. that was it for our relationship
Violence and Physical Control The individual admits to being on top of a woman with his hands on her throat . Even though he insists, "I didn't choke her," placing hands on someone’s throat is an inherently violent and threatening act . Saying "I let her go" implies there was a moment where he could have chosen not to — that's coercive physical dominance , regardless of whether harm occurred. Minimization and Deflection He prefaces the story with, "I have never hit or harmed a female," attempting to defuse or soften the severity of what he's about to confess. This rhetorical maneuver is common in post hoc justification of inappropriate behavior. It suggests a lack of accountability — he's not truly confronting how dangerous the act was. Substance and Judgment Impairment He admits to mixing alcohol and cannabis and losing control in a social situation . Combined with the physical incident, this points to poor impulse control under the influence , which raises concerns for future risk , especially if similar conditions are repeated. this behavior is dangerous , and the way it's presented raises serious concerns about: His past use of physical force during a moment of emotional escalation . Lack of remorse or full ownership of how frightening or traumatizing that event may have been for the woman involved. A concerning moral detachment , given that he tells the story casually and with minimal reflection on the potential harm caused. further scrutiny from law enforcement if the victim could be identified. While he may not have committed a criminal act in the legal sense (based on his version), it suggests a capacity for physical aggression under pressure, which cannot be ignored.
