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To: Gauguin who wrote (9754)4/14/1998 6:50:00 PM
From: Jacques Chitte  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 71178
 
There's a continuum between consent and coercion. In this continuum seduction occurs. I think seduction is unethical, because it relies on the conflict between two sets of values. The "strategic" values of being in control of your sexuality vs. the "tactical" values of not being rude. Especially when your head is being spun by a smooth operator.
It takes a certain amount of moral courage to say "No". A willingness to be a jerk in defense of a longer-term policy, especially while your hormones are in an uproar.