To: Wizzer who wrote (1317 ) 5/25/1998 11:35:00 AM From: jbe Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 4711
Wisam - re: "internet laziness" and "intellectual empathy" I have a couple of comments on your post: 1) You seem like a thoroughly nice person, Wisam! (Pardon the gushiness, generally a no-no here.) 2) I tend to agree (as you appear to) with penni's response to my original post on this subject:Most people barely listen to what's being said because they are so busy planning their response. At the same time, I also agree with Claude -- up to a certain point -- that "guilt rests with the writer." (Note that I put the period inside the final quotation mark that time!) Many posts are so badly written that it is impossible to figure out what the writer is trying to say. That's why I started this thread in the first place. At the same time, I unfortunately cannot agree that "a well-written post will only have to be read once." Claude, if you are reading this, let me thank you, as effusively as I can, for calling my posts a "model of clarity." But I wouldn't have raised this question (of "internet laziness", to use Wisam's felicitous expression) at all if my own posts had not been misread (or only partly read) on a number of occasions. I am not talking about exchanges that degenerate into a brawl. (I'm not a brawler.) I am talking about fully civilized, polite, non-confrontational exchanges, where the reader is in too much of a hurry, or too preoccupied with the message he wants to deliver, to grasp the point I am trying to make. So he responds -- but not to the point. If I try to raise it again, I get the same result. In such cases, I usually just "give it a rest." Why bulldog it to death? I am sure my experience is not unique. jbe