To: George Coyne who wrote (18596 ) 8/31/1998 1:32:00 PM From: lorrie coey Respond to of 20981
I spoke with a good friend (female) about some of your ideas and she agreed with the essence of your position. I was surprised. Perhaps I will have to rethink, or rather think for the first time about your theories....I've never had anyone call my, (maybe-not-so)humble opinions "theories"...I think that's great that you have an open mind and a good friend to exchange ideas with. I still feel that your tendency to communicate only in SUGs will result in very few converts, and if you really believe those SUGs, will tend to create a paranoid situation for you. I do not know what a SUG is....I do not have any "conversion" agenda...if one feels like "prey", hypervigilance could be considered a healthy response... If you expect every male you meet to conform to your preconceived characterization, you will never react to them, or they to you, as individuals.I expect the worst and hope for the best...and sometimes , a rare individual will emerge and communication is enhanced for the greater good...faith in humanity is restored, etc. A couple of questions: Do you feel that Clinton is a positive, negative or neutral (neutered?) step in the evolution of the male of the species?I think that in the evolution of the Human species, men like Bill Clinton are simultaneously creating and transitioning into a new type of alpha-male society...most men are conditioned to feel threatened by any Woman whom they feel has assumed, or presumed a position of authority...many times, Women who express themselves in an assertive way, are seen as "agressive"...wich we all know, "is NOT Lady-like!" The men who do not attempt to dominate Women will be the most attractive to Women, like Bill. It's survival of the fittest, and it's men who share power with Women, that will be the "sexiest" and the most sought after...(see Monica) Are you gay (sexually autonomous?)? No.