SI
SI
discoversearch

We've detected that you're using an ad content blocking browser plug-in or feature. Ads provide a critical source of revenue to the continued operation of Silicon Investor.  We ask that you disable ad blocking while on Silicon Investor in the best interests of our community.  If you are not using an ad blocker but are still receiving this message, make sure your browser's tracking protection is set to the 'standard' level.
Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!! -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Jacques Chitte who wrote (25788)11/5/1998 10:17:00 PM
From: Grainne  Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 108807
 
<I heard something on the radio today that a failing body leads to a failure of dignity.>

Yes, I think that is often true, Alex. I read something along the same lines, that people who have heart surgery typically go through a really deep depression afterwards. I know that my uncle, who is only sixty-three, was so despondent after his recent triple bypass that he decided he would rather continue to eat cheeseburgers and donuts (he's a police detective) and all the other greasy foods that caused his heart trouble for a short period of time until he died, rather than adopt a really spartan Dean Ornish kind of diet and keep on truckin' longer.

I really respect Sam because he somehow has dealt with the sense of shock and betrayal that comes with a serious illness and kept on functioning. I think that is really remarkable. I wonder if courageous, honorable, dignified behavior at the end of life is something that is learned, or comes from the depth of character? Death used to be a normal part of life, and everyone probably learned by example how you should act. But in America almost everyone lives so long that it is a rare occurrence.