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To: cgraham who wrote (3047)11/15/1998 5:10:00 PM
From: Elmer Flugum  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 6545
 
It would be much easier if a woman would say "how about if I come over maybe three days a week, we can have a nice dinner, wine, and then an hour of good sex and the I will go home?"



To: cgraham who wrote (3047)11/15/1998 9:36:00 PM
From: joe  Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 6545
 


Wonderful post Cat!!

I use to be a lowerlife form such as Len, but after
wondering for years where the emptiness of life
came from, I discovered a lot about myself and found
that changing sexual partners every month, six-months,
even 2-3 years was very unfullfill. In defense of
men, it could be because my unusual high-testosterone
level was totally out of control.

Anyways, now I am of the belief that sex is somewhat
of a spiritual act (not in a religious sense by any
means, because I don't believe that two souls unit).
But there is a physical bonding that occurs that is
*extremely* strong that goes beyond description by
words. It's a very intimate and binding experience,
and just using sex for the main purpose of releasing
sexual energy is just not satisfying anymore. It
dismisses what really happened.

Also, I think lots of folks use sex as a substitute
for sex unknowingly, but rationalize it as just
sex for enjoyment of sex. I've searched deep down
in myself, and found that to be a big lie to myself.

Sorry for the seriousness of this post, but I guess
the subject has lately made me reflect a lot on
sex....there's been a whole lot of it in my life
in the past, in fact at one time I thought I was a sex addict,
but too much of it has had a hard price to pay.