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To: Jacques Chitte who wrote (28296)1/17/1999 10:59:00 AM
From: Ilaine  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
>>>>>I have never been able to "read" speech or body language. I'm practically autistic when it comes to "collateral" communication. I am very, very wordbound.<<<<<

I doubt that is true, and for Exhibit One, I proffer the Helenator!<g>

OK, now I think I have convinced you without a word!

But, I think I get your point, you are an engineer, intuition doesn't help you with engineer-speech, for a couple of reasons, one which you alluded to, or someone else did (Sturgeon?), that it is not polite to "read" body language-statements that people are not expressly stating verbally, and anyway it may be counterproductive.

But, I am not an engineer, the situations in which I developed intuition have to do with crises of the human mind and heart, during which the brain and tongue are not always the most reliable informants.