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To: Ilaine who wrote (28487)1/17/1999 10:51:00 PM
From: Bullhorn  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 108807
 
I seem to have more pleasure being spoiled by older women.the young ones are to much trouble.Bullhorn



To: Ilaine who wrote (28487)1/17/1999 10:57:00 PM
From: Dayuhan  Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 108807
 
The comment about the ego being served by the companionship of pretty younger women was based mostly on observation. An awful lot of older men, especially where I live, do tend to look at a younger consort the way they would look at a fancy car; a decorative object to be displayed to the envious masses.

In my own very limited experience, extremely attractive women tend to have a deep-seated feeling that all they have to do to please is exist. This has, for me at least, a rather transient appeal, which has occasionally created some problems in the household. If a man wants to be fussed over, he's a lot more likely to get that kind of attention from someone who does not have fantastic good looks (there is of course a huge middle between gorgeous and ugly).

Not a subject on which I'm particularly objective, but I suppose that's true of most of us.

Steve



To: Ilaine who wrote (28487)1/17/1999 11:00:00 PM
From: Jacques Chitte  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 108807
 
"the ego boost from being seen with a woman who fits the mass perception
of what a woman ought to be, physically at least,"

Them's Trophy Wives. The very term suggests that it is a male way of flaunting success. Like the jock mentality you described.
I think it's natural for successful men to think in such competitive terms. We evolved to view competition as the greatest test of ability/worthiness to survive. I imagine most women see/do it differently.