To: nihil who wrote (31290 ) 2/20/1999 11:28:00 AM From: Rick Julian Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 108807
Interesting post nihil.He cannot be existentially brave, or give his life to art or music. I deny absolutely that a married purely heterosexual person can become a great painter or sculptor, or novelist, or leader of people. A musician friend and I had a similar discussion yesterday. Aspiring to and/or achieving greatness in any field, requires a certain monomania--particularly with art. With rare exception, I doubt a man can be a truly "good" husband and father when art is his mistress. Perhaps, later in his life, once his creative flame has begun to dim some, and the call of his muse becomes less seductive, he can become less selfish with his energies, but until then, he and society (in terms of artistic/cultural evolution) are better served by his devotion to creativity. One of my collaborators had the potential to be a truly great composer. His natural gifts were, and still are stunning, yet his marriage and fatherhood will preclude his realizing his fullest artistic potential. Too many times when late night sessions would have been required to elevate good musical ideas to great ones, he became anxious about not being at home with his family (a lovely wife and two beautiful children) and had to "bail out" prematurely, and consequently our work suffered. When he was single, we could work until early in the morning with no regard for others, and produced some seminal works. As an artist, you can't serve two masters. I disagree though about the exclusion of "pure heterosexuals" from the "great artists club". I believe an artist can be in touch with his feminine, creative aspect,have the capacity for an agape love of other men, and create great work without having a sexual arousal response to men. I don't know about the private sexual proclivities of all my artist friends, but on a superficial level, the most talented of my friends appear to be highly sensitive straight males. But that's just among my circle of friends--there are many circles.