SI
SI
discoversearch

We've detected that you're using an ad content blocking browser plug-in or feature. Ads provide a critical source of revenue to the continued operation of Silicon Investor.  We ask that you disable ad blocking while on Silicon Investor in the best interests of our community.  If you are not using an ad blocker but are still receiving this message, make sure your browser's tracking protection is set to the 'standard' level.
Pastimes : Laughter is the Best Medicine - Tell us a joke -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: MrsNose who wrote (10978)8/10/1999 8:33:00 AM
From: Carole Olkowski  Read Replies (6) | Respond to of 62549
 
>>> The following is from an actual 1950s Home Economics textbook
>>> intended for High School girls, teaching them how to prepare for
>>> married life.
>>>
>>> 1. Have dinner ready: plan ahead, even the night before, to have
a
>>> delicious meal-on time. This is a way of letting him know that you
>>> have been
>>> thinking about him, and are concerned about his needs. Most men
are
>>> hungry when
>>> they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the
warm
>>> welcome
>>> needed.
>>>
>>> 2. Prepare yourself: TAke 15 minutes to rest so you will be
>>> refreshed
>>> when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair
>and
>>> be
>>> fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.
Be
>
>>> a
>>> little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need
a
>>> lift.
>>>
>>> 3. Clear away clutter. Maker one last trip through the main part
of
>
>>> the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school
>books,
>>> toys,paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. Your
>husband
>>> will feel
>>> he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a
lift
>
>>> too.
>>>
>>> 4. Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the
children's
>>> hands and faces if they are small, comb their hair, and if
necessary,
>
>>> change
>>> their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see
>>> them
>>> playing the part.
>>>
>>> 5. Minimize the noise: At the time of his arrival, eliminate all
>>> noise of
>>> washer, dryer, or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be
quiet.
>
>>> Greet him with a warm smile and be glad to see him.
>>>
>>> 6. Some DONT'S: Don't greet him with problems or complaints.
Don't
>
>>> complain if he's late for dinner. Count this as minor compared
with
>>> what he
>>> might have gone through that day.
>>>
>>> 7. Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable
chair
>>> or
>>> suggest he lay down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink
ready
>>> for him. Arrange his pillows and offer to take off his shoes.
Speak
>
>>> in a low,
>>> soft, soothing and pleasant voice. Allow him to relax and unwind.
>>>
>>> 8. Listen to him: You may have a dozen things to tell him, but
the
>>> moment
>>> of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first.
>>>
>>> 9. Make the evening his: Never complain if he does not take you
out
>
>>> to
>>> dinner or to other places of entertainment; instead try to
understand
>
>>> his
>>> world of strain and pressure and his need to be home and relax.
>>>
>>> 10. The Goal: try to make your home a place of peace and order
where
>
>>> your husband can relax.