To: Phil(bullrider) who wrote (524 ) 11/21/2000 12:41:14 PM From: SofaSpud Read Replies (1) | Respond to of 1309 Hi Phil, I've been looking for this story since I read your post. It seems on-point: > WRINKLE IN MY HOOD > > We live in a very quiet neighborhood. > Late one evening I was listening to some music when I heard a loud > crash on the street. It took me a while to realize what had happened. > Earlier that evening my wife wanted me to go to the store to get some > soft drinks. It seemed like this would be a good time to let my teenage > daughter get in a little practice driving. I sent her to the store with > her older brother riding shotgun. She took my truck. I settled back to > enjoy the music. > At dinner earlier that evening my oldest son was speaking admiringly > of the truck. It is a little four-wheel drive Ford Explorer and the kids > knew I enjoyed having it. It is the nicest car I have ever owned. > I said, "Guys, my heart is not set on that car. I like it but it is > just rusting metal and it is a depreciating item. It won't last forever. > Never set your heart on anything that is temporary." > I had no idea how prophetic my advice was that night. > The thud on the street was followed by a commotion upstairs and then > the whole family pouring down the steps led by thirteen year old Chuck who > shouted, "Dad, Dad, Holly wrecked your car." > My heart sank and my mind was flooded with conflicting thoughts. Was > anyone hurt? Who else was involved? I ran to the door with a racing heart > and in that instant a message came clearly to my spirit like a voice in my > heart: > "Here is your chance. You have always looked for ways to show Holly > that she is precious to you. Here is a unique opportunity to show her what > you really love. How you react now is something that she will probably > never forget." > To my surprise the accident had not occurred on the street, but right > in my own driveway. And my fears about damage to the property of other > people melted when I saw that the collision was with our other car, the > family van. In her inexperience Holly had confused the brakes and > accelerator. In an instant both of my cars were wrecked. Holly was unhurt > physically but when I reached her she was crying softly and saying over and > over again, "Oh, Dad, I'm sorry, I'm sorry Dad, I know how much you love > this car." I wrapped her in my arms and she cried and my heart melted for > her. > Later that week an adult friend stopped by and asked what happened to > my truck. I swore her to secrecy and then told her what happened. Her eyes > moistened and she said, "That happened to me when I was a girl. I borrowed > my Dad's car and ran into a log that had fallen across the road. I was > able to drive the car home, but it was totaled. When I got home my Dad > dragged me from the car, knocked me to the ground and began to kick me." > Over forty years later the pain of that rejection still moved her to tears. > It was a deep wound on her soul. > I remembered how tender-hearted Holly had been the night she wrecked > the car and how vulnerable she was at that moment and I breathed a prayer > of thanks to God for His gentle reminder that night. Someday years from > now when Holly thinks back on her life and she remembers me I want her to > know that I loved her a thousand times more than all my earthly possessions > put together. > I repaired the van, but the wrinkle in the hood of my truck is still > there today. Every day it reminds me of the really priceless things in my > life. I don't mind having damage to my truck, but I don't want to be > responsible for damage to my daughter's heart. > > -- Ken Pierpont <pierpont@mail.riverview.net>