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Pastimes : Let's Talk About Our Feelings!!! -- Ignore unavailable to you. Want to Upgrade?


To: Grainne who wrote (32210)3/8/1999 8:34:00 AM
From: Sidney Reilly  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 108807
 
<<And my daughter said the slide show of all the children as babies, and as kindergarteners marching in costume at Halloween, and on third grade camping trips, was the saddest thing she had ever seen.

Time passing is sad; it means that there is less of life ahead than there was. Milestones force us to confront this for a few moments or days, and then we regain our equilibrium, and get back into the unexamined moment, where most of us exist most of the time.>>

We recently watched some tape of our child from years ago. The dominant emotion for me (not them) was the weight of the years gone. And the future with our child shortened. It's best not to dwell on that but to live for each day and what joy it can bring.



To: Grainne who wrote (32210)3/10/1999 1:50:00 AM
From: MSB  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 108807
 
Milestones.....

I gave this a little more thought after posting the questions. I suppose 50 is a biggie as it represents a life half over if one hopes to live to a 100 (although I doubt many will).

<<Anyway, I suspect you haven't hit any huge milestones yet (because I felt the same way you did until they did). >>

If 50 is huge, what are the ones which are larger?

Consider for a moment a person who passes at say 30 (Jim Croce or Ronnie Van Zant). Was one of their milestones the age of 15? Or say someone passes at 46, was 23 a milestone?

I know what you're saying. One expects to live a normal or above average life expectancy, but really no one knows for sure just when that date will be. Also, perhaps it is a point of contemplation for adding up the events of one's life and seeing if they equal the expectations, or jump start one to do those things which they've always wanted to do. But the truth be know, I suspect it is coming to grips with the fact that one's youth is quickly passing into the twilight of memory. However, I believe we are all just kids. Some of us are just older ones than others.

<<...and get back into the unexamined moment, where most of us exist most of the time.>>

Before, after, or during threads like "Let's Talk About Our Feelings".<retorical> <g>

MSBx=50

BTW, are you familiar with a film called "Year of the Horse"? I saw it advertised as coming to Cinemax. Not having seen it, I think it may be a rock documentary of Neil Young's career. Hope its available on video!! (Wouldn't know since we got the satellite dish)