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To: Neocon who wrote (37063)11/16/2001 8:59:42 AM
From: thames_sider  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 82486
 
As a practical matter, we do permit women to give up their children to orphanages or adoption, in an orderly manner, but until such time as the paperwork goes through and the transaction can be affected, we hold them responsible for the child's care.
Well, how kind. Why not allow them the chance not to bear the child in the first place??

We would be asking little more in requiring them to carry to term before ridding themselves of the child........
Bizarre. This is just... weird is too kind.
Do you like the concept of brood mares? Keep a nice little stable of pregnant women? Because of course we have such a shortage of children in orphanages, don't we. It's important to keep up the supply of unloved infants. Oh, and who cares if the mother's forced to bear them. She'll glow with health the whole way through, and it won't cost her anything. Yeah, of course.
Clearly, that was spoken without thought, by someone who's never been pregnant...
BTW, I've never been pregnant either. BUt I can at least empathise.
I'm not a father, either. I'd like children. But I don't think I have the right to force anyone to bear them.



To: Neocon who wrote (37063)11/16/2001 9:06:51 AM
From: thames_sider  Read Replies (3) | Respond to of 82486
 
Pregnancy is, by and large, a healthy condition for a woman. (It is child- bearing that is dangerous, although much less so under modern conditions). Parasites feed off of you to your detriment, they do not cause physical changes which enhance your stamina and make you "glow".

So there is a certain short-term benefit (sometimes). Which balances the short-term sickness, aches, strains, and inconvenience?
Longer term, would you say that the uterine damage, blood vessel damage, strained joints etc which can result balance whatever longer-term benefits there are? (I don't actually know if there are any). Women, in my experience, choose children despite the pains and sufferings of pregancy, not for its benefits... do you know many different??

I was using the term 'parasite' more as an analogy, attempting to represent the position of an unwanted embryo... but unless you can come up with long-term health benefits for the mother from pregnancy (including childbirth) I may have spoken even more truly than I realised.



To: Neocon who wrote (37063)11/16/2001 10:26:49 AM
From: epicure  Read Replies (2) | Respond to of 82486
 
It is NOT a healthy condition for a woman. It was, before advanced medical care, the leading cause of death for women. It is still dangerous- it puts a great strain on the heart, the pancreas, and the liver, and all other systems (the skeletal system for example) - it can aggravate many life threatening conditions, and actually cause several. It can destroy women psychologically, and physically.