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The Final Chapter - Musings about the end of the line
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Welcome to "The Final Chapter - Musings About The End of The Line."

Inspired by the thoughtful reflections of The Traveling Wilburys' song, this forum offers a compassionate space for intelligent discussion about death, dying, leaving a legacy behind, and the art of writing the final chapter of life well.

We believe that approaching life's ultimate transition with grace, foresight, and an open heart can bring profound peace to ourselves and those we love. Here, we invite you to share insights, wisdom, and practical strategies on topics such as:

  • Making the most of the time we have left: How to live fully, cultivate joy, and mend relationships.

  • Meaningful preparations: Discussing wills, estate planning, and practices like "Swedish Death Cleaning" (Döstädning) to ease the burden on loved ones.

  • Leaving a legacy: Ideas for building lasting memories with children and grandchildren, or contributing in ways that echo beyond our lifetime.

  • Navigating grief and comfort: Offering support and understanding during the difficult times of loss and farewell.

To maintain a truly compassionate and constructive environment, please note: This forum is not a platform for criticizing religious beliefs, promoting specific ideologies, or engaging in debate about the existence of an afterlife. Our focus is on the human experience of preparing for, and coming to terms with, our finite time on Earth, respecting all personal perspectives.

A good example of a post and topics is something like the list below:

1. What method of body disposition feels right for me?
2. What kind of goodbye would feel meaningful for me and for the people who love me?
3. Who should be notified if I die tomorrow?
4. Who do I trust to make medical decisions if I can’t?
5. Is there anything I’ve left unsaid? Who do I need to say it to?
6. Set up your iPhone Legacy Contact & Gmail Inactive Account Manager.
7. Set up a password manager—and share the master password.
8. Name a guardian for your kids or pets.
9. Make a bank account “payable on death” (POD).
10. Write down what matters most.

Link to the article discussing the above list: 10 questions to answer before you die
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22Yes, that's wonderful. Someday I may seek a similar social situation. We wiljazzlover21November 6
21True. It's a sad thing for us single folks that our circles of friends and fStan1November 6
20Thx for that. You are lucky to have a deep pool of alternates to choose from.jazzlover21November 5
19... the fees, If I remember correctly were under 1%. but those were the days wheInvestor2-November 5
18Good info. Thanks Shootie.Stan-November 5
1720 years ago a banks trust department would take $250000 and manage it for the bShoot1st2November 5
16Obviously, there’s a cost to having a professional trustee. True. The local fInvestor2-November 5
15I see the overall benefit of that, but my estate wouldn't be large. I'd Stan-November 5
14As a trustee for a number of trusts, I recommend going with a trusted financial Alan Smithee-November 5
13It's best if the trustee is not a family member. My mom's friend made heSun Tzu1November 5
12As a trustee for a number of trusts, I recommend going with a trusted financial Investor22November 5
11If you go back a ways, or for some other reason have stock certificates stashed S. maltophilia4November 5
10In the case of a beneficiary who is not good with money, either a Testamentary WStan4November 5
9A suggestion to copy and paste the 10 headlines from that post and include in thBob3November 3
8Death--The Final Frontier [an ode to Star Trek]Sam-November 3
7A note on health care POA’s (based on a personal experience): Never give a HC Pkidl-November 2
6We thought so too. But unless you are explicitly declared as such, it is not truSun Tzu-November 2
5Seems to me that logic would dictate that the person with the (financial) POA skidl-November 2
4A friend had an untimely death last year. Even though we had power of attorney, Sun Tzu-November 2
3A repost from another chat A major lesson learned on getting old Do your chilDon Green4November 2
2Re: 9. Make a bank account "payable on death" (POD). My attorney saInvestor22November 2
110 Questions to Answer Before You Die: hellomortal.substack.com Hat tip to ajtjSun Tzu3November 2
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